Correcting modern parenting loop holes

  • High standards and limits: State and regulate the limits and standards that you want your child to stick on to. So that the little beings care about their status before acting in a certain way. Raising expectations this way isn’t harmful, you see!

  • Don’t stop Carers: Parents usually explode on the other people who point out their kid’s mistake. Trust us! Let them do it and don’t cover for their wrong deeds. It would come back to you.

  • Consequences, not a joke!: Try to stick to your own words. Establish a reputation. If you have fixed a certain punishment for a mistake, do that. Don’t fall weak or else, in future, the consequences would be yours.

  • Role Model: Behave the similar way you want your child to become. If both of you fight, scream and blame each other, beware, your child is grasping it. Be a role model to raise an ideal human being.

  • Fear of Children: Generally, parents get down to their knees to avoid the tsunami of obstinance. The fear of children let them do what the little one wants. Get strict or else your kid would play the same tantrums, the other time too.

  • Parental Model: Some people try to follow the same or the exact opposite of what their parents did to them. If you are the one, get this straight that every kid is unique and needs a separate model to be brought up.

  • Don’t belittle your needs: Parents ignore or cut their needs and wants to fulfill the wants of their child. Discuss with them and take feedback on every possible problem. Now you do not need to explain to them everytime.